Do guys just enjoy being ***holes?

It’s possible, but unlikely. At best, it’s rare.

It’s more likely we have an epidemic of boys struggling to become men. When a woman asks, “Do guys just enjoy being ***holes?”, she’s really asking, “Why haven’t the boys become men yet?”

This is a complex question. In 1990 Bill Moyers tried to answer it in an interview with the poet Robert Bly. “A Gathering of Men” became in instant hit with both men and women, helping us understand how boys become men in contemporary society (or don’t).

If you’re serious about understanding this issue, the hour-and-a-half watch time is well worth it.

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