This one was new to me when I heard about it.
Girl 1 does something that Girl 2 doesn’t like. Girl 2 is too anxious to confront Girl 1 about it, so she gets her friend, Girl 3, to yell at her in public about it. Girl 1 is now “getting bitched out” by Girl 3.
Girl 3 is mean and ignorant, but she’s not the problem.
Girl 1 is unaware of what she did wrong, so she can’t be the problem either.
Girl 2 is the problem, because she couldn’t cope with the anxiety of actually having to talk to Girl 1.
Is this really the best we can do?